Hello every one,
I am 32 years and my wife is 27 years.I am just depressed cause 2 years ago I got married, but my wife not taking interest in love, intercourse. Even she don’t like to let me kiss her or to talk her about love. She don’t let me to touch her body or to talk about sex. I ask her again and again the reason, so she is telling I don’t like intercourse, kissing, touching etc. I investigate about her, so understand that she was never in the favour of marriage in life, not only with me but with any person.
She accept to marry with me by her family. She never want to intercourse and if I ask her after 2 to 3 days, she prohibit and saying no, When I am always asking her so she hardly accept intercourse with me twice in a month without interest and not letting me to touch her body and see her body during intercourse, or kiss her, she don’t let me to penetrate and saying just ejaculate, so she is still virgin, cause she is not interested in kids or maybe she afraid to give birth to kid. I told her don’t afraid just let me penetrate, its okay we will wait for kids if you don’t want now, but she is not accepting.
She always sitting in other room. She is not sleeping with me near. I always ask the reason that why you are not becoming a normal wife, but she is not saying anything. Before she said I will be okay after 1 year of our marriage, but she didn’t changed. Even become worse than before, she is spending 1 to 2 weeks in her father home, when going there. I hide this problem from all for one year, then I told her married sister about it, cause her mother died before 17 years. Her sister advising her and saying to give love to your husband, but no effect, even my family advising.
I will say maybe she is feeling shy to do intercourse with me or talk to me about sex or show her body to me, but how long she will shy, as already 2 years passed for our marriage.
All the married people will know this situation, that how it is hard to control yourself after marriage and how hard to accept like these behaviours as my wife doing.
I was patient for this long time and was waiting that she will be OK on time, but now I can’t control myself, I am feeling so bad and sick. I am badly depressed. Cause I apply all techniques to make her arouse for love and to make her normal wife, but she never let me to do.
This situation destroying my mind. I never want to leave her. I want that she give me love as a wife giving to her husband. I love her too much, that’s why never gone for other women, even in this situation that she is ignoring me. I investigate that maybe she love some one else, but not this case too. She is respecting my family and also respecting me, but she don’t want me to do intercourse or to talk about it. As everyone know the real respect of a wife for her husband is give herself to him whole heartily and with mind and give her whole body to him.
I ask her why you accepted the contract of marriage if you were not in favour of these things. She said I like marriage but not these. I told her marriage is the name of these things.
