I am a volunteer worker at a home for abused street girls here in Manila. It seems I found the site I am looking for which can help me learn to understand the young girls who have been traumatized by their experiences so that I can help them out of their depression. I intend to come here more often.
Raymond

Raymond Xx I believe for me its filling their lives with as much love and laughter and get them to realise there are kind considerate people in the world not all people are bad Xx I found when I was assaulted I found support in kind people who helped me moved on and help me find a better place those who filled my heart with hope and dreams and made me smile again. Each day I got closer to happiness each day I found that there is life after depression that I can smile and laugh and love. I found sports and recreation a great healer like swimmimg, cycling, dancing and being out in the fresh air makes me happy now. Eating good wholesome food not smoking or drinking helps too. Drinking alcohol made me sad :0( especially the day after. You are inspiring hope now with your decision to ask for support and you shall find it here you are among friends some very beautiful kind decent people visit this site and social support is one of the greatest healers Xxx Being filled with positive dreams I have made a wonderful life for myself not over night ‘faith waiting in the heart of a little seed promises a miracle of life it cannot prove at once’ anon. I shall pray your friends find their souls to live and laugh again XXHUGXXX Chloe Xxx

Raymond Xx I asked one friend and she replied to feel beautiful like a woman should feel again to be able to wear beautiful clothes have manicures and nice make up and have their hair styled and made to feel they are what they are beautiful creatures young beautiful girls who should be able to look beautiful and feel confident about their beauty and maybe the inner beauty might grow again from within them and they find their inner peace and loving self happiness again Xx I shall ask other friends oppinions and give you feedback XXHUGXX Chloe

Hello Raymond, how are you? I can only imagine what you have to deal with, and even worse than that, what the poor girls have had to deal with. It’s a very honourable thing that you are doing. It annoys me that people like you don’t get more help, recognition and reward. We reward the wrong people in our society today, but that’s another issue.

I don’t know how much I can advise you cos I have aboslutely no experience in that kind of situation, but I imagine like a lot of other sufferers, and as Chloe mentioned, I guess they just need a lot of care, attention, support and understanding, and with that and with time, when they are ready they’ll start to heal themselves. One thing I have learnt is that you can really heal them or force them to get better, it’s very much a process they have to go through themselves, and heal themselves, you just need to be there for support. Just remember though, you need to keep yourself well, don’t let everything you see drag you down too.

Hope you are doing OK.

Hello Raymond Xx I asked another friend a male friend and he said bring them back to normality, brining somebody back to a normal life, how a normal life should be. or Take them out to dinner make them feel special in a way that makes them feel normal again. Xx your culture might be different to ours, we might have a different way of making somebody feel needed important special Xx I bought my daughter a little present today Xx to make her smile and feel loved is your culture similar ? How would you make somebody feel special and wonderful, how would you bring them back to normal life ? it would make them feel whole again I guess before they were abused. I agree with what Brencoot has written, you are a very very good person to care for these girls and have somebody they can turn to yet carers must remember to care for themselves Xx you need your sparkle Xxx HUGXxx Raymond I see you Xx you’ve got sparkle Xxx Chloe

Raymond Xx I remember something too that stuck in my mind when I was assaulted Xx A friend said its not your fault, I blamed myself alot Xx friends told me it was my fault and also why what happened to me wasn’t my fault because It hapeened to me several times I continued to believe I was bad and brought things on myself Xx it might not be the case in your girls yet this happeneed to me Xx self blame Xx I hope I have helped in some way Raymond Xx if I haven’y help at all you know I am here to listen and support you Xx Chloe

Raymond Xx I have been thinking about you and your friends alot because I was stunted as what to say. I thought about the trauma the girls must have been through and it is unimagineable, abusers are demons. I thought what could I give a girl to give her peace after being abused. Then I thought gosh they are so strong so unbelieveably strong amazingly strong I am so lucky. I couldn’t do what they have had to do. They are amazing creatures to have the strength to be a street girl. I just thought they must be the most amazing creatures on this planet. A friend joked about being a call guy and I thought you wouldn’t get nice happy clean clients, she would be received by all the people other people wouldn’t entertain. They are so brave they have guts they are my heroes. Please tell them from me how wonderful they are courageous beautiful woman. They have been treated like meat by devils. I hope God repays the abusers with hardship and trauma, I hope their minds are filled with the guilt the filthy demons deserve. Raymond they are so lucky to have you your sparkle your kindness your strength your bravery to help them Xx Please tell them it wasn’t their faults nobody deserves what they have been through and tell them they have the strength to bring back their normal lives because they are the strongest women in the world Xxx they are so very strong and amazing what they have had to go through to be able to survive XXXHUGXXX I admire them so much Xxx and you for caring Xx If it were me I would build a shrine for your beautiful heroes who have found demons and survived Xx what amazing strength to be able to do the job they do and you XxChloe

Chole x x hi my friend x hug x Its hard trying to nav around this site with just my mobile . On my own today just me working . Jean is a born star fills me with pure hope and will to go on x chole you are just as special to me x hug x what a caring girl you are makes me cry knowing there are some really sweet caring girls in our country . You helen and jean and jamie who is a friend thank you so much for caring x what your fav film lol since you told me you watched alot . Take loads of care x hug x paul

I love watching the boat that rocks Xxx My favourite movie is the spiritual warrior Xxx its based on a true story Xx I love the movie the notebook Xx highlander when he has heather in his arms I cried alot Xx theres something about mary Xxx Oh I need to think teee heee can you smell burning Xxx Chloe

Where my fav girl chole x I have somehow come off good day g . I read your last messages . Omg they are sweet x from a sweet caring girl . Hug . Hope you and soph have a good day at the beach . Which beach . Chole why were you crying x hug x My friend hope you are ok x till later paul x

Paul Xx hello Xx Wittering Beach near Chichester we didn’t go because my friends daughter got sick so my daughter is out playing with the goats Xx Life has a way of fixing things it always has for me XXHUGXX Life has made me strong and time heals tears dry and love and laughter do find a way of finding their way back into my life Xx I realise I need to look to finding my own happiness not rely on other people. I need to go swimming more, I love swimming Xx My husband is a very good friend. I told him he needs to get back on his motorbike and we both need a bit more of a life, a bit more me time Xx Bit more fun and bring the joy back into our lives Xxx When my husband has been out with his mates he is buzzing, he comes through the door so happy, I love it because he is nice happy. Perhaps we both need to make some time for hobbies and fun more me time Xx Chloe

Paul XxWhat are you doing in the carers is it because you are looking after me ha ha xx have you got your computer going yet Xx Chloe

Hi chole x x back on my phone x just listening to classic verve . Before weepy willow . I see the door . She came in a dream boat no way to des in my head . My friend hug x paul

Paul xx only recently I was given a verve cd so I have not heard of classic verve Xxx shame on me Xxx what is the album called so I can look it up on amazonXx I really love the music and its really really gorgeous lyrics Xx I was just handed a cd by a friend and asked to listen to track 5 and 8 I didn’t have the case Xx ha ha oh sadly I got the wrong end of the stick !!! tragic comedy which I can laugh about now Xxx I would love to find the lyrics of that song too Xx promise I wont fall in love with you if you tell me ha ha XxChloe

Hope your having a lovely day Xx

chole x

i will find the words for you.  I see the door is a clasic on the cd single on my own again.

Then you will love History cd singles on there is on my own again acustic so good makes me all fill up.

Chole I think u are mega sweet ha ha yes I could love paul… been to the beach with callum in the sun…

How are you and sophie today?????? why chole are u my number one friend.  who i care about forever

Paul xxx